Friday, January 8, 2010

TO MY ILMB GALS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Helloooooooooo guys!!!!!!I am back to blogging,,after 6 long months.I hope u guys missed me,lolz.Life has changed bigtyme in these 6months.There was a time when i used to have no work to do and today i hardly find free time for myself.Today I am so happy with my life that i cant express.You all(the IMLB gals) know what my life was before!!There was not a single day when i used to not cry...all thanks to that styppid moron ex bf of mine.The ILMB girls have helped me a lot in my life n m really thankful 2 each and every one of you all..Thank gawd m totally out of that shit now n super happy with my new guy(TOUCH WOOD).Yes gals u heard it right....theres a new guy in my life.Life with him has been so beautiful that i cant describe.
If i start talkin abt him poora blog bhar jayega....lolz....these 6months have been the best days of my life.I have realised one thing that whatever happens is for Good:),and m thankful to GOD for everything....Well the main reason of writing this post was that i wanted 2 tell people that yes ARCHIE IS ALIVE n she wll b back again into bloggin...... Missed you guys a lot....


Sunday, July 19, 2009


I opened my closet today and found my life n relations mixed in it. Today m trying to organize it. here I go.....................

First section that keeps my Daily wear; I don’t have to think too much abt this section. This section has all the natural fabrics……. Ordinary and simple,,, but this is the place where m most comfortable!!! It might not b that trendy but I know whatever may b the season it will always have something for me. (FAMILY and CLOSE FRIENDS,includes the special sum1 olso)

Second one is my Casual wear; little trendy lil stylish but still comfortable, don’t hav to pretend my self. This section has all the stuff which suits me and my mood. When I am confused, this is the only section where I can look back to (FRIENDS)

Third one is Party wear; I hav to think a lot at times abt it. Some times they r uncomfortable, sometimes not,they r trendy and fashionable and I hav to keep it lively; after all they make me look gud. (RELATIVES and SOCIETY)

Fourth one is Not my type wear; initially they seem attractive to me but later on I realize that they r not my types and most of them are gifted to me. I hav kept it in one corner of closet butI don’t know how they always get mixed up with every other sectionA. This stuff is uncomfortable, I can’t wear it but they themselves comes into my hands. The More I avoid them,the more they come back to me.(IRRITANTS)

Fifth one is One time wear; liked it so bought it, but never got a chance or xact place to wear it or wore it only once. Looked at them, smiled at them and kept them again in the same place. It might b of no use but still makes me feel gud. This section has got a spl soft corner in my heart. Don’t know y? (CRUSH and AFFECTIONS of LIFE)

SiXth one is- Dream wear; whenever I get a chance i wear such them,This section is spl to me after all it has my tag on it. (FUTURE DREAMS and FANTASIES)

oh!!finally my closet is arranged!!!!!
hope it never gets messed up again.....................

hey u bitch........................

When I stand up for
Myself and my beliefs,
They call me a

When I stand up for
Those I love,
They call me a

When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts
Or do things my own way, they call me a

Being a bitch
Means I won't
Compromise what's
In my heart.
It means I live my life
MY way.
It means I won't allow anyone to step on me.
When I refuse to
Tolerate injustice and
Speak against it, I am
Defined as a

The same thing happens when I take time for
Myself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I act a little selfish.
It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be.
I am outspoken,and determined I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that!
So try to stomp on me,
Try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me.
You won't succeed.

And if that makes me a bitch ,
So be it.
I love the title and
Am proud to bear it

B = Beautiful
I = Individual
T = That
C = Can
H = Handle anything

p-s:-dedicated to all those who think that -I M A BITCH..lolz

Why good looking WOMEN are rude to MEN?

You are walking down the street somewhere, or shopping at a mall, or sitting at a restaurant or bar, and then you see her. That beautiful woman you've had your eye on since who knows when. You feel your heart racing, your pulse pick up, your eyes beginning to widen. You approach her and attempt to say something witty, but you become tongue-tied. Eventually, you find the words to say and gush over her appearance, telling her how beautiful she is, how you would like to get to know her, etc etc. She gives you a half-interested look, says thank you, and politely brushes you off. You may wonder to yourself, why did she just blow me off so rudely like that?

For most attractive women, this scenario is a common occurence. Men continuously come on them every day, even when they are not consciously doing so. Most people in our society have been conditioned since birth that attractive people are special and deserve to be treated differently from your average person. Therefore, men usually attempt to go out of their way to attract beautiful women in extravagant ways, like buying flashy clothes, jewellery, fancy cars, or other expensive gadgets, or they spend hours in the gym working on their bodies so they can attract that really gorgeous female[(haha nothing to do wid u my baby)]. For some of these men, it may initially attract these women, but the women later become disenchanted with these antics and usually end up dumping these same men.
So why do beautiful women act so rude to most men? And is there any chance for an average-looking guy to go out with a stunningly beautiful woman?

In reality, most beautiful women are not rude or bitchy by nature; it's just that their beauty tends to attract more people to them on a daily basis. When a beautiful woman travels somewhere, whether it's going to work, or the coffee shop, the supermarket, or at the bar, she is constantly approached by eager males, and most of these men always want something from her, most often a phone number or date. Even men who are not actively attempting to hit on her tend to act differently in front of her and offer her more attention than usual or give special favors to her. Well, she doesn't have enough time in the day to go out with all of these men, regardless of how nice they are to her, so she has to develop some way of screening them out. Therefore, she acts out by putting up a protective mental shield, which is a way for her to discard all of the men she is not attracted to and seek out those men who she feels have some more interesting to offer her

Well, in your eyes, this woman my be incredibly attractive. However, even the most beautiful woman has insecurities and worries about how she looks. You may feel yourself trying not to stare at her butt as she walks down the street in her shapely dress or blue jeans, but she may worry that she is too fat or is gaining too much cellulite in her thighs. Or she may believe that she is too flabby in her waist. She may have female friends who think that she eats too much ice cream or comments on how her hair is too greasy or frizzy, or that she breaks out with pimples too often. She may have family members who talk about how she has dragon breath in the morning or makes monkey sounds when she laughs.

So if you want to approach a really beautiful woman and have a conversation with her, and you find yourself getting nervous when you try to say something, just remember that she is human like you are and has her not-so-pretty moments. Instead of gushing over her beauty, trying to say something corny or using a bad pick up line, think of how she may look with food in her teeth, or slipping on the sidewalk, or sitting on the toilet seat, or some other embarassing situation as you approach her, and you will feel yourself becoming much less nervous around her. You can then say "hi" to her, but DON'T compliment her on her looks before you go into an extended conversation

You're probably wondering, why would I not compliment her on her looks or tell her how beautiful she is? Well, because she is always being complimented by other men about her beauty every day!
If you approach her like a regular person and not a desperate guy trying to go out with her, she will notice that you are not like the other men she sees. She will then wonder why you didn't tell
her how pretty she is, and this will stoke up her insecurities. And ususally when this happens, she will approach YOU and attempt to win your approval of her. This will surely help to build up your confidence, and before you know it, she will be asking you for a date or your phone number.

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

maybe M ADDICTED---a song just 4 u

Have I told you how good it feels to be me,

when I'm in you?

I can only stay clean when you are around.

Don't let me fall.

If I close my eyes forever, would it ease the pain?

Could I breathe again?

Maybe I'm addicted,

I'm out of control,

but you're the drug that keeps me from dying.

Maybe I'm a liar,

but all I really know is you're the only reason I'm trying.

I am wasted away,

I made a million mistakes.

Am I too late?

There is a storm in my head;

it rains on my bed when you are not here.

I'm not afraid of dying,

but I am afraid of losing you................................

Saturday, April 25, 2009

To a special freind............i love u...........

U make me feel higher than the moon

this warm feeling u give me inside

there could be no better

it feels like no more i have to hide

U brought me out of myself

showed the world what i had to give

i cant believe i finally found

the one that i wanna be with

This feeling is so hard to explain

like no words exist to show how i mean

its better than floating upon cloud nine

U give my heart a brand new sheen

This is one love I'm not letting go

I'm gonna hold on tight

and make us last

cos the love we feel is oh so right

I know u feel the same

and not just cos u tell me so

its the little things you do for me

its like i m never on a low

There's just one more thing that i wish

for you and me to never part

i want to keep the love we share

as fresh as from the start

I'm gonna stop this rhyming now

for those of u who know

love cant be written in words

its in the little things u show..........................I love u............

Friday, April 24, 2009

Dear mr.anonymous(my secret love)

I dreamed of a love
a love so true
and then from above
God sent you..........

When our eyes met
I turned away
Only to regret
That grateful day.......

I search in the dark
To find that key
That triggers the spark
You put in me..........

I want you to see
That my love is true
Even though we can't be
I still hold my true love for you.................................

Sunday, April 19, 2009


Read it somewhere so thought of sharing it with u guys

1. Men are NOT mind readers.( FIRST & FOREMOST RULE

2.Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do.Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.

3.Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.In fact, all comments become Null and void after 7 Days.

4.If you think you're fat, you probably are.Don't ask us.

5.You can either ask us to do somethingOr tell us how you want it done.Not both.If you already know best how to do it , just do it yourself

6.Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials

7.Crying is blackmail, Ask for what you want.Let us be clear on this one.Subtle hints do not work!Strong hints do not work!Obvious hints do not work!Just say it!

8.Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.

9.If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one.

10.Christoph er Col umbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.

11.1. We don't remember dates. Mark birthdays and anniversaries on a calendar. Remind us frequently beforehand.

12.If you won't dress like the Victoria's Secret girls, don't expect us to act like soap opera guys.

Saturday, April 18, 2009



MAIN UDNA CAHTI THI.......................!!!!
Every little girl dreams of becoming an airhostess,i dreamed the same.Becoming an airhostess was not just a fantasy for me but it was my madness.I had well in advance decided "after I am done with my academics i would soon puruse my diploma in AVIATION".So after my results were out i went and got myself enrolled with the worlds number no1 airhostess training acadmey.I still remember how excited i was when i was through with my interview process for the enrollment and i had got the selection letter.

Soon after the enrollment,my classes commenced.My first day in the institue was not that good as i had no freinds there and was sitting alone on the last bench.But as days passed i made many freinds and i was the miss congeniality in my class.Some girls would hate me while some would just adore me for my multi tasking skills. I was good with my grooming,assignments,my persentations,my interviewing skills,my mock interviews.My faculties were impressed with me too.The best thing for which I was known for in my batch was that i would get ready in just 10mins,ie right from changing n wearing my uniform,my stockings,my shoes,to doin my make up,to hairstyling..all this in just 10mins,while i remember all other girls would come 1hr prior to the class to do all this and still they would enter 5mins late for the class....lols
Soon i started feeling that no one can stop me,i have evrythin in me...i started gettin over confident:(Never did i even imagine that the aviation industry would be hit by a big crisis and all my dreams will b shattered.Today i m nothing.I just have a DIPLOMA degree in aviation and nothin else in my life.I feel like a looser when people keep askin me "what happened abt ur flying dreams"?.....I have no answer other than walkin off from there.Still ,whenever i go to the airport and see those goregous looking females with those tight uniforms and a bright smile on their face ,I ask only one question to myself

"when will i fly"?????????????????????????????????????????