Sunday, July 19, 2009
I opened my closet today and found my life n relations mixed in it. Today m trying to organize it. here I go.....................
First section that keeps my Daily wear; I don’t have to think too much abt this section. This section has all the natural fabrics……. Ordinary and simple,,, but this is the place where m most comfortable!!! It might not b that trendy but I know whatever may b the season it will always have something for me. (FAMILY and CLOSE FRIENDS,includes the special sum1 olso)
Second one is my Casual wear; little trendy lil stylish but still comfortable, don’t hav to pretend my self. This section has all the stuff which suits me and my mood. When I am confused, this is the only section where I can look back to (FRIENDS)
Third one is Party wear; I hav to think a lot at times abt it. Some times they r uncomfortable, sometimes not,they r trendy and fashionable and I hav to keep it lively; after all they make me look gud. (RELATIVES and SOCIETY)
Fourth one is Not my type wear; initially they seem attractive to me but later on I realize that they r not my types and most of them are gifted to me. I hav kept it in one corner of closet butI don’t know how they always get mixed up with every other sectionA. This stuff is uncomfortable, I can’t wear it but they themselves comes into my hands. The More I avoid them,the more they come back to me.(IRRITANTS)
Fifth one is One time wear; liked it so bought it, but never got a chance or xact place to wear it or wore it only once. Looked at them, smiled at them and kept them again in the same place. It might b of no use but still makes me feel gud. This section has got a spl soft corner in my heart. Don’t know y? (CRUSH and AFFECTIONS of LIFE)
SiXth one is- Dream wear; whenever I get a chance i wear such them,This section is spl to me after all it has my tag on it. (FUTURE DREAMS and FANTASIES)
oh!!finally my closet is arranged!!!!!
hope it never gets messed up again.....................
When I stand up for
Myself and my beliefs,
They call me a
When I stand up for
Those I love,
They call me a
When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts
Or do things my own way, they call me a
Being a bitch
Means I won't
In my heart.
It means I live my life
It means I won't allow anyone to step on me.
When I refuse to
Tolerate injustice and
Speak against it, I am
Defined as a
The same thing happens when I take time for
Myself instead of being everyone's maid, or when I act a little selfish.
It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be.
I am outspoken,and determined I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that!
So try to stomp on me,
Try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every ounce of beauty I hold within me.
You won't succeed.
And if that makes me a bitch ,
So be it.
I love the title and
Am proud to bear it
B = Beautiful
I = Individual
T = That
C = Can
H = Handle anything
p-s:-dedicated to all those who think that -I M A BITCH..lolz
You are walking down the street somewhere, or shopping at a mall, or sitting at a restaurant or bar, and then you see her. That beautiful woman you've had your eye on since who knows when. You feel your heart racing, your pulse pick up, your eyes beginning to widen. You approach her and attempt to say something witty, but you become tongue-tied. Eventually, you find the words to say and gush over her appearance, telling her how beautiful she is, how you would like to get to know her, etc etc. She gives you a half-interested look, says thank you, and politely brushes you off. You may wonder to yourself, why did she just blow me off so rudely like that?
For most attractive women, this scenario is a common occurence. Men continuously come on them every day, even when they are not consciously doing so. Most people in our society have been conditioned since birth that attractive people are special and deserve to be treated differently from your average person. Therefore, men usually attempt to go out of their way to attract beautiful women in extravagant ways, like buying flashy clothes, jewellery, fancy cars, or other expensive gadgets, or they spend hours in the gym working on their bodies so they can attract that really gorgeous female[(haha nothing to do wid u my baby)]. For some of these men, it may initially attract these women, but the women later become disenchanted with these antics and usually end up dumping these same men.
So why do beautiful women act so rude to most men? And is there any chance for an average-looking guy to go out with a stunningly beautiful woman?
In reality, most beautiful women are not rude or bitchy by nature; it's just that their beauty tends to attract more people to them on a daily basis. When a beautiful woman travels somewhere, whether it's going to work, or the coffee shop, the supermarket, or at the bar, she is constantly approached by eager males, and most of these men always want something from her, most often a phone number or date. Even men who are not actively attempting to hit on her tend to act differently in front of her and offer her more attention than usual or give special favors to her. Well, she doesn't have enough time in the day to go out with all of these men, regardless of how nice they are to her, so she has to develop some way of screening them out. Therefore, she acts out by putting up a protective mental shield, which is a way for her to discard all of the men she is not attracted to and seek out those men who she feels have some more interesting to offer her
Well, in your eyes, this woman my be incredibly attractive. However, even the most beautiful woman has insecurities and worries about how she looks. You may feel yourself trying not to stare at her butt as she walks down the street in her shapely dress or blue jeans, but she may worry that she is too fat or is gaining too much cellulite in her thighs. Or she may believe that she is too flabby in her waist. She may have female friends who think that she eats too much ice cream or comments on how her hair is too greasy or frizzy, or that she breaks out with pimples too often. She may have family members who talk about how she has dragon breath in the morning or makes monkey sounds when she laughs.
So if you want to approach a really beautiful woman and have a conversation with her, and you find yourself getting nervous when you try to say something, just remember that she is human like you are and has her not-so-pretty moments. Instead of gushing over her beauty, trying to say something corny or using a bad pick up line, think of how she may look with food in her teeth, or slipping on the sidewalk, or sitting on the toilet seat, or some other embarassing situation as you approach her, and you will feel yourself becoming much less nervous around her. You can then say "hi" to her, but DON'T compliment her on her looks before you go into an extended conversation
You're probably wondering, why would I not compliment her on her looks or tell her how beautiful she is? Well, because she is always being complimented by other men about her beauty every day!
If you approach her like a regular person and not a desperate guy trying to go out with her, she will notice that you are not like the other men she sees. She will then wonder why you didn't tell her how pretty she is, and this will stoke up her insecurities. And ususally when this happens, she will approach YOU and attempt to win your approval of her. This will surely help to build up your confidence, and before you know it, she will be asking you for a date or your phone number.