Sunday, March 22, 2009

Are women the weaker sex???

Who says so? Have you ever seen two women near a municipal tap? Or two mothers fighting over their kids? Or a wife berating her husband who gets home late from work? It’s a myth that women are kind and considerate as a sex. On the other hand, they are cold and calculating and know just which side their bread is buttered. You have to see the women in Soaps on the TV- scheming, manipulative, ruthless, and wicked.

The exercise begins very early in life too. Dressed in their pretty pink frilly skirts, with bows and curls in their hair, they look like angels who can’t say ‘boo’ to a mouse. They giggle into each other’s tiny ears ghastly things about their brothers! If the brother were to tweak their ears or pull their ears or pull their hair, there is a torrent of tears.

Go getters- that is what we women are. Just go to the suburban Station at 5.30 in the evening and you’ll be surprised at the agility with which they go to get a seat in the train! Purses clutched to their bosom and sarees tucked at the waist, they poise themselves like atlehetes in the Olympics and the minute the train steams into the station, they charge like the light brigade. Feminity? Grace? What are you talking about? Victorian novels?

There is no doubt-women are a difficult species to contend with. If you know what’s good for you, keep on their right side. They make excellent friends and the most deadly enemies


Marriage is perhaps the only union that cannot be organized…. Both sides think they are the management!!!Consequently, fights do happen… Even in the 'made-in-heaven' marriages and relationships. And we always thought that if we During the first few months of their marriage, couples are usually in a sort of denial about each other’s negative qualities. But soon enough, a time comes when they can no longer turn a blind eye to those shortcomings all the time. The reality of living together and dealing with each other’s habits and quirks had to be faced. That’s when the problems start and fights begin. So they start to get on to each other's nerves. And they feel.... this is not right..... When they are disappointed or angry, they think.... this is bad. Sometimes the fights are so ugly and bleak that they even take away the real pleasure of being together.
Sometimes the couples are even forced to reconsider whether they should really stay together at all.
Like me, most people think that if they are fighting, that means that their relationship is in trouble. But the fact is that couples don't break up because their fighting is causing a problem in their relationship, but rather because problems in their relationship are causing fights. And so the key to a happy marriage/relationship is actually identifying those problem areas and resolving those issues as best as you can ....and as soon as you can. No matter how angry or disappointed you might be, it is worth its while to try and express your grievances, expectations and feelings.

Holding your tongue and suppressing your anger does more harm than good. Getting sad over things that irritate you and giving your partner the “silent treatment” does not comprise healthy resolution of marital conflict. The best way to do so is to talk honestly and respectfully. Talking makes you feel understood and allow your partner to support you. Talking also gives you perspective. You don’t feel like you are alone. Be equally open to your partner’s feelings. Remember your partner may have a different view. But that view of reality may be just as real as yours. There are not many objective realities

I MISS U(dedicated 2 my sister)

Sister is someone who loves you from the heart,
No matter how much you argue you cannot be drawn apart.
She is a joy that cannot be taken away,
Once she enters your life, she is there to stay.
A friend who helps you through difficult times,
Her comforting words are worth much more than dimes.
A partner who fills your life with laughs and smile,
These memories last for miles and miles.
When she is by your side, the world is filled with life,
When she is not around, your days are full of strife.
A sister is a blessing, who fills your heart with love,
She flies with you in life with the beauty of a dove.
A companion to whom you can express your feelings,
She doesn’t let you get bored at family dealings.
Whether you are having your ups or downs,
She always helps you with a smile and never frowns.
With a sister you cannot have a grudge,
She is as sweet as chocolate and as smooth as fudge.
Having a sister is not just a trend,
It is knowing you can always turn to her, your best friend!!!!!!

You have been like a boon to me.When it comes to define you, i have only these words which describe you the best---NAUTANKI.Being a elder sister i have always had that fear about you.I remember the fights we used to have,the nail scratching,the hair pulling,the kick boxing,,hahah,it was so much fun.Remember the summer vacation's noon's?Mom used to sleep and we both used to secretly open the doors n used to go downstairs to the candy shop n used to eat those ice candies & chocobars?All these were so much fun.I even miss the shoppings sprees i used to anjoy with you on sundays,and not just that the exp dresses you used to get for me on my bddays or special occasions.Girl since you got married my life has changed completely.Why did u get married n go away so far?Now no sundays are the summer vacations are like before,evrything seems so dull without u,I REALLY LOVE YOU MY SISSY!MUAH